If you’ve impressed a guy or awed him enough to make him want to ask
you out on a date, you’ve definitely done something right already, so
that’s a good start.
The flirty conversations, the stolen glances or a common friend could
have created the perfect setting to fix both of you up on a date.
But to actually dazzle your date and awe him with your gracefulness
and your womanly traits, and make him fall for you, you need to learn a
few more details.
First date tips for girls
A first date is no different from any of the conversations you and the guy may have had earlier.
But at the same time, a first date is also the stepping stone from harmless flirting to a potential something in love.
When both of you decide to meet up over a date, it’s a serious move
to test both of your compatibilities and see if there’s a chance to fall
in love with each other.
Sometimes, the date may be a success. And many other times, the date
could lead to an awkward silence that ends all conversations between
both of you.
Now the most important first date tip to remember is to behave like a
lady when you’re with a man who’s making the effort to behave like a
gentleman. And for the other tips you definitely need to know, read on.
16 first date tips for girls to dazzle your date!
Dating is a little game of courtship between two potential lovers.
Both of you may like each other, and know quite a bit about each other.
But when you’re sitting next to each other in a romantic setting, it’s
judgment time.
You’d be more critical of the guy and would want to know everything
about him, his likes and dislikes. And just like you, the guy too would
want to know everything about you so he can judge the compatibility
between the two of you.
So when you’re on a first date with a guy you really want to dazzle,
keep these 16 first date tips for girls in mind, and you’ll see how easy
it can be to impress this new man in your life.
#1 Make him feel like a man.
If you want to impress a
guy you’d like to date, help him feel like a man. Sit back and give him
an opportunity to pamper you. If you need something at the table, tell
him about it so he can speak to a waiter and get it for you. Of course,
you can do that yourself! But by making a man believe that you need him,
it makes him feel like more of a man. Give him a chance to be your
protector and he’ll love you for it
#2 The art of smelling nice.
This is a first date
tip that all girls definitely need to remember. And it’s something every
guy will definitely remember too! Don’t douse yourself in perfume, but
use it liberally over your pulse points like the neck, your cleavage,
your palms and the back of your neck.
And for added measure, spray a mist of perfume into the air and walk
under it so the perfume stays locked in your hair too. Every time you
walk past your date or even get closer to him to whisper something, he
needs to inhale the mild intoxication of your sensual perfume. By the
end of the night, all he’d want to do is hold you close and sink into
your intoxicating aura!
#3 Girls dress in pastels.
Want to impress your new
catch? Then look no further than soft pastel colors and soft fabrics in
your wardrobe, to pick the right attire. Black and red are excellent
picks to show off your sexuality. But to display the femininity in you
that’ll make a man feel protective around you, you definitely need to
dress in softer shades.
#4 Unforgettably soft hands.
These are the little
details that can make all the difference on a first date. When a guy
holds your hand, make sure they feel really soft and supple. A guy may
not realize it himself, but your soft palms will always make him want to
reach out and hold your hand often. Use hand creams or moisturizers on
your hands and your lingering soft touches will always leave him wanting
more.
#5 Ask him a few questions too.
When you’re on a
first date with a guy, don’t just sit back and answer questions like
you’re in an interview. Ask him a few questions now and then, or even
ask him to elaborate further about something he mentions. Guys love it
when a girl shows genuine interest in their life. And he’d be more than
flattered to see that you’re deeply interested in hearing more about his
life.
#6 Incessant complaining.
Even if the guy you like
has picked a dump of a restaurant for the first date, don’t roll your
eyes or whine about how lousy the place is. Think about it, he picked
this place to enjoy your company, so he obviously wouldn’t try to ruin
it for you intentionally, would he? Girls who complain a lot are a big
no-no for any guy. On the other hand, guys love a girl who is
accommodating and seems easy to get along with even if she looks like a
glamorous diva!
#7 Smile. laugh.
Smiling and laughing wholeheartedly
on a date inspires a guy. It makes him believe he’s the king of the
humor world, and it also makes him feel more confident and less nervous
around you. Unless his jokes are cringe worthy or tear inducing, laugh
along and try to have a nice time. Perhaps, over time *and a few drinks
later* he may start to seem like a really funny guy.
#8 Every guy likes it smooth.
This is a no brainer,
really. But it’s still something that needs to be said if you want to
impress a guy on a first date. Make sure all the parts of you that are
seen on the date are nice, clean and shaved up. It makes you look a lot
sexier and appealing.
#9 Dress for the occasion.
Looking good on a date is
one of the biggest criteria for a successful date. But at the same
time, don’t go wearing a short, tight skirt or a cocktail dress if both
of you are planning to go hiking or bowling. Dress appropriately and
most of all, focus on your comfort. If you’re comfortable, you’d feel
sexy and look really sexy too. obably a nervous wreck because he’s trying really
hard to woo you, and is feeling conscious about it. Compliment him now
and then, and help him settle his nerves down. But at the same time,
don’t be so easy on him that you start to behave like a humble lapdog
and he treats you like a pushover. And just another word of caution
here, don’t have sex on the first date. It’s not a great start to a
happily ever after.
#11 Making him splurge.
Don’t make the guy splurge
too much on the first date, or you may end up scaring him off date
number two or leave him broke. Be yourself, but don’t flaunt your high
maintenance status and order expensive champagne and caviar unless you
know for sure that he can afford it.
#12 Talk, but don’t reveal all.
This is important
because it’s easy to get carried away in the middle of an exciting
conversation. Avoid going into details unless the guy you’re with seems
overly interested in it. At times, your date may ask you a question like
“how are things at work?” only to keep the conversation going. So
unless he asks you to elaborate about something, avoid speaking about
something for more than a couple of minutes at a stretch. And don’t
answer in monosyllables either!
#13 When am I seeing you again?
Sometimes, you may
ask him this and then bite your tongue in awkwardness. It’s alright if
your excitement clouds your better judgment and you pop this question
and put him in a spot. But if you have a choice, avoid asking the guy
about the next date because it sounds too desperate and clingy. If the
date goes well and the chemistry’s working perfectly, you know he’ll
call!
#14 The goodbye kiss.
This is always an awkward
moment at the end of the date. And everything about how this goes
depends on the girl because a good guy would be too cautious to make a
bold move here.
If you’re ready to kiss him, give him a hug and as you’re leaving his
arms, bring your face close to his face and just wait for the magic to
happen. But if you don’t want to kiss him goodnight just yet, turn your
face to the side and give him a chance to kiss your cheek. It’s the
least you can do to end the date with a hope for something better.
#15 The right kind of goodbye.
The way the girl says
goodbye to the guy at the end of the first date can make all the
difference in the way the guy remembers the happy ending. If you like
the guy and had a wonderful time, turn around and look at him coyly as
you walk away from him, blush just a little bit and walk on. It’ll
definitely leave any guy floating on cloud nine.
#16 Wait for him to call you.
And don’t obsess about
him either. After the first date, as much as you enjoyed it, wait for
the guy to call you. It’s an annoying thing to do, but it’s something
that always works. Don’t call the guy. By calling him, you’re making it
very obvious that you’re already crazy about him. And by doing that,
you’re taking the suspense out of the game, which can make the guy start
taking you for granted.
Of course, some guys will be flattered if you call them first and
realize how serious you are about dating them, but in the case of most
guys, it’s a sign for them to take the backseat in the chase because
they know they’ve won you over already.
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